Anyway, the latest news is that Charles Trippy from CTFxC is dating a girl a named Allie. And just a few months ago, he divorced his wife of like two years, Alli. And right before that, he was engaged to a girl named Ally. So it's all a bunch of craziness on Twitter. And GuruGossip had predicted this a while ago when they found a picture on Instagream of a girl posing with a giant turtle and a separate picture of Charles posing with a giant turtle at the same place.
They had deduced that he had been secretly hanging out with one of two girls: a girl they called Wooden Hair B**** or WHB, and her friend named Allie. Well, today a picture was posted on Twitter of Charles with his arm wrapped around the waist of a mystery girl FIRST confirming that he is seeing someone and with further sleuthing SECOND confirmed that the girl he is seeing is indeed named Allie.
Weird or nahh? Does Charles have a fetish for girls named Allie or what?
I don't really know what to think of this. I have nothing against that Allie girl whatsoever. But I do have a distaste for Charles because how the heck can he be seeing someone merely within months of separating with his wife? It's just kind of wrong to me. And GG is speculating that he may have been cheating which may have lead to the divorce. It's all really muddy there. But one thing I know about GG is that they're practically the FBI. They have dug up the craziest secrets and the craziest things always seem to get confirmed sooner or later.
But I'm posting because something was brought up on GG that made me think of something else. The people who make up the fandom of CTFxC hav been defending Charles' new relationship saying that "Allie makes him happy and that's all that matters". And the gossipers of GGer were saying that if the roles had switched and it was Alli in this new, fast relationship, the fandom would have sent her death threats. Basically, even though the fandom is made up of girls, many of them are sadly misogynists.
It got me thinking of my group of friends. So the new drama we are dealing with his the new found flirtiness of my "father", who I'll call J for now as I discuss what I'm about to discuss. I knew he had been acting more flirty towards me because of all the hugs he would ask for from me but I didn't really think of it as anything else except him going back to his perverted old self. Then, I heard from my friends that he had been even more extreme and sexual towards them. And then, they brought up his girlfriend, R.
Apparently, they had been having more fights as of lately and I had no idea this was happening because of my internship. I knew they took a break about a month ago but I didn't even realize it because of how cordial they had still been acting. Then, my friend tells me that just a few weeks ago, J had admitted to her that he wanted to just break up with her.
My friends want him to break up with her because they feel that she's repressing his real personality. I've known J since I was in ninth grade and he's always been perverted person. He has a very spontaneous and fun personality. He's also been in several relationships since I first met him. He's one of those guys that can never not be in a relationship (like Charles Trippy) and in every relationship, he had been the one broken up with. Frankly, it always kind of annoyed me how he would always have to be in a relationship. And he was always slightly different with me than when he was with his girlfriend and that's cool. Whatever. But for whatever reason, he's unhappy in his current relationship and I'm guessing he really doesn't know how to break it off so now he's reverting seriously back to his single-life personality and I'm really not sure where I'm going with this...
Okay, so misogyny. My friends have been annoyed with their whole relationship but they've been attacking R because they believe that she's mainly the cause of their up-and-down emotionally draining relationship. From what they've told me, the reasons for the majority of their fights is because R doesn't open up to J even though J seems to pour his heart out to R. And really, when they explain to be the certain situations, I can't seem to help but side with R because I'm not much of an open person and also, there's really not much going on with me to talk about and sometimes, I don't really want to talk about my problems. And I'm thinking R is like that to.
Does that mean she shouldn't be in a relationship?
Yes, quite frankly, it does. I don't think she's ready for a relationship and I think that's okay because I'm not either and plenty of us aren't either. We're still young and it's hard to open up to people we've only known for a few years. But I don't think their fights are mainly her fault. I think J is too overly attached and overly emotional and I think he really has an issue with just being alone. First of all, when you're in a relationship, you should NEVER be overly touchy with a girl because YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP. My friends don't seem to understand that. They acknowledge that it's wrong but downplay the seriousness of this because they all ENJOY it.
I have to admit that J is an attractive guy so I see why they enjoy it. But I think that as a girl, you have a duty to your fellow girls to not be homewrecker. If you know a guy who's in a relationship is being too flirty with you, you're supposed to call him out for it or make him chill out. That's what I do. And I feel obligated to do this because not only is it right, but also R is one of my FRIENDS. She's ALL of our friends. But some of my friends are too preoccupied with J's attractiveness to realize it. They think she's the one in the wrong because she's jealous but really, wouldn't you be jealous and suspicious if your guy is touching another girl's butt? Or hugging her around the waist? Or talking to her more than he talks to you?
I think it takes two make a relationship and if it fails, it's usually because there's problems on both sides of the relationship (that's excluding cases of abuse and sometimes cheating). I think R stirs up fights and if she really wants to make her relationship work, she needs to start communicating. If not, she just needs to break up with him. I think J is overly emotional and I also think he needs to deal with his emotional issues before getting with a girl. I think they're both not ready to be in a relationship and it would be great for our entire friend group if they just broke up. For one, I'll have my friends back. They've been in the "honeymoon stage" since last year when they first got together. Every time they're together, they're kissing and hugging and totally disregard the rest of the group. And I liked it better when J and R would actually interact and have fun with everyone else. Now J suppresses some of his humor because he doesn't wanna seem a certain way around R. And R is even more closed up even though she's always kind of been.
Actually, this is the reason why my friends have a problem with her. They feel like that she pushes them away and they haven't had the opportunity to get to know her. I, on the other hand, have because we used to ride the bus home together when we were juniors so we talked about things a lot. Maybe that's why I'm not against her in this whole fiasco. My friends admitted they would take J's side if they broke up and there was a whole bunch of animosity. But I honestly wouldn't. I'll support both of them but there's NO way I'm taking sides because I love them both.
But really, I called this from the beginning. I didn't know if they would last or not. But I knew that if they didn't, there would be big riff in our entire friend group. And it's happening now.
Right now, R and J are on the high on their roller-coaster ride of a relationship. On Friday, they paid for a ticket for the senior picnic but didn't go. My friend said she saw them but they mysteriously disappeared. We later come to find out that they had gone to J's house. (I'm not really sure how we found out or if we assumed. Maybe she texted me. I can't remember.) And apparently J had admitted to another one of my friends that they hadn't had sex in a while. (Yeah, please don't ask why we know this stuff. It's gross, I know.) So across from the school at the shopping center, we had been discussing their disappearance. And we soon put two and two together and made the assumption that R had finally became fed up with J's behavior and decided to have sex with him to get him back on the straight and narrow.
So yeah...
My friend was mainly disappointed that J (and a portion of our friend group) had ditched our last day of high school to be together. I get her disappointment though. I had more fun last year during the 2013 seniors' last day when there was a gas leak and everyone had to stay outside until it was fixed. All my friends hung out by a tree and we really enjoyed ourselves. This year, everyone separated.
I realized that there's really only a few people I actually consider good friends out of our group of friends. At the senior picnic, I was going around with a group of people but there was only one person I actually wanted to be with. Everyone else I truly liked wasn't even there. And that was one of the reason's why I was not in the best mood at the senior picnic.
I would've much rather not paid for a ticket and had spent my time in the rain going around the area with a small group of people I actually liked. We probably would've walked around malls, and ate ice-cream, and got into crazy antics. Ugh...
I'm in a better mood now and senior picnic was an experience. I'm glad it's all over, that's for sure.
So I think I may have just found myself a new limo group for prom. The people I had been communicating with about it have stopped texting me but the next step is for me to just communicate directly with the girl that's actually planning the limo. The thing is, I had already made up my mind that I was getting a ride with the parents to prom. But after seeing pictures last night of prom for kids going to neighboring high schools, I've fantasized more about having a limo. Not only because I'll be riding a limo to prom but because I'll actually have a group of friends to take pictures with before being sent off. Everyone on Facebook had either a date or a big group and it would just be me taking pictures in the front of my house. How lame would that be?
I had also agreed to my friend who had absolutely no transportation, that we could possibly go together. And I told her about the open spots on the limo and she simply can't afford it. How shitty would it be of me if I still took the limo and left her to fend for herself? It's funny because we had planned to go to prom together last year and now, we've kind of quietly agreed that we would do our own things. But since both of our plans have gone downhill, we had found ourselves planning things together only for them them to go into the trash again.
It's all just crazy, man. I haven't told my mom about the new arrangement but I've already given her three different transportation plans and I don't want this one to fail and have to deal with my mom's wrath. So I'll just wait until I'm 100% sure.
Let things just work out. Please God. Please let things work out.
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